by Ellen F. Warren
On a perfect summer day in July 2004, nine-year-old Ryan Mowers was
practicing archery with his bunk at Camp Kweebec in Schwenksville, Pennsylvania.
As he squinted down the arrow, he looked like any other fourth grader
enjoying his first summer at camp. At the pool, his brother, twelve-year-old
Brandyn Mowers, was just drying off. Older, and maybe a little wiser,
Brandyn was quieter than the other boys in his bunk. Though he didn't
talk about it, Brandyn knew that his mother was about to be deployed
for combat training in the Pennsylvania Air National Guard. He didn't
know how long she'd be away. But he knew that she might get sent
to Iraq. And he was old enough to remember how scared he felt when his
father, also an Airman, had been sent overseas after September 11, 2001.
On that same perfect day, Staff Sgt. Patti Findley of the PA Air National
Guard's 111th Fighter Wing was visiting Camp Kweebec with a reporter
from the Philadelphia Inquirer. Off-duty, Sgt. Findley was a professional
photographer. On duty, in uniform, she was taking pictures for The Sandy
Hog Gazette, the 111th's news bulletin, while the Inquirer reporter
researched a story about "Operation Summer Camp" — a
tuition-free "campership" program offered to the children
of the 111th by American Camp Association (ACA)-accredited camps from
ACA, Keystone Regional. With Sgt. Findley was a special surprise for
the Mowers boys — their mother, Tech. Sgt. Maureen Mowers, thirty-two,
who was taking advantage of the press tour to say one last goodbye to
her boys. She was leaving the next day for training.
Looking up from his arrow, Ryan Mowers saw some adults walking toward
him. Then he saw the camouflage uniform of Sgt. Findley, who was leading
the group. When a child with a parent serving in the military sees a
stranger in uniform, his heart skips a beat. Ryan's sunny face
went dark, fear setting in, until — in the blink of an eye — an
enormous smile lit up his face as he saw his mom and ran into her arms.
In January/February 2003, Camping Magazine featured stories about the
different ways in which the organized camp community responded to help
children who had lost a parent on September 11, 2001. Thoughtful and
generous, these programs all helped children grieve in a safe place and
get back to the business of being a child. But in the aftermath of 9/11,
as America mobilized to fight terrorism, the ripples of those horrific
attacks created a new group of children with unique emotional needs — the
children of deployed parents; children living with the daily fear that
comes with having a parent off fighting a war.
Reaching Families in Need
Stephen Taylor, director of Camp Neumann, learned about the hardships
families endured when a parent was suddenly deployed from one of his
camp counselors, who was also serving in the 111th Fighter Wing at the
Willow Grove Air Reserve Station. As a National Guardsman, Patrick Trauger
was a crew chief in the 111th Aircraft Maintenance Squadron. He told
Taylor about the families of the men and women he served with in the
111th — families whose lives were turned upside down when a parent's
income plummeted from a good-paying job to military pay. Faced with less
money to pay the bills, the spouse at home was often forced to take extra
work, which then created child care problems and transportation problems
and even more financial burdens. Compounding their worry for the welfare
of their soldiers, families left behind coped with the stress of "holding
the fort" at home.
Taylor immediately decided to provide tuition-free "camperships" to
the children of the 111th Fighter Wing, but he wanted to do more. He took
the idea to Bob Miner, ACA Keystone Regional president, and Michael Chauveau,
executive director of ACA, Keystone Regional. Both jumped on board and
agreed to help promote the idea throughout the ACA, Keystone local office.
That was the easy part.
Challenges
The challenge was in figuring out how to create a manageable program.
Who would be eligible for the camperships? How would ACA Keystone connect
camps with families in need? Trauger introduced Taylor to Nicholas Monatesti,
a former airman who now serves as the family readiness coordinator for
the 111th Air Wing. The Family Readiness Group (FRG) is the Air Force's
one-stop family assistance services office, which is established in times
of contingency call-up, mobilization, and large-scale deployment to provide
support and assistance to Service members and their families. Family readiness
coordinators help military families access needed services and cut through
"red tape" when a parent is called to active duty for an extended period
of time. Monatesti says the primary mission of any FRG is to inform and
emotionally support families so the military member can perform his or
her mission. On any day, his job might include providing youth development
and counseling information to parents, preventing a bank from foreclosing
on a military family's home while a parent is on active duty, finding
child care, or helping in emergency situations.
In May 2003, Monatesti met with an ACA, Keystone committee to explain
the organizational structure and protocol of the military and the role
of the Family Program. The committee learned that unlike regular Army
families, which are accustomed to living a military life on a base
with other military families, Guard and Reserve families are often
unprepared for a sudden deployment. Besides the sudden change in income
and parental responsibilities, the children of guardsmen and reservists
may not have any other friends who are living with the same experience
of having a parent serving overseas, so it's hard for them to share
their feelings with friends. Monatesti offered his services to coordinate
the camp program through his office. As a model program, working with
the Guard's 111th seemed a good place to start. By the end of the meeting,
Operation Summer Camp was born.
For camps used to running their own programs and handling their own registrations,
Operation Summer Camp posed some new problems. With the camp season opening
just weeks away, quick mobilization was required. But because of the military's
security regulations, initial contact with prospective families occurred
only through the family readiness coordinator. ACA, Keystone Regional camps
who wished to participate by offering camperships provided session availability
information, brochures, and videos to Monatesti. Through mailings, e-mails,
meetings, and phone calls, he disseminated the camps' offers to the
families of the 111th. As parents responded, Monatesti helped them review
the camp material to find the best camp match for their child.
Thanks to the generosity of the camp community, families could pick sessions
from one week to eight weeks at day and overnight camps, camps with various
religious orientations, camps for special interests, and camps for children
with special needs. Once a family selected a camp, Monatesti helped them
complete the registration information and insured that all of the necessary
paperwork was provided to the camp. In 2003, the first year of the program,
thirty-two children ages six to fourteen went to camp — many for
the first time, but certainly not the last. In 2004, forty-five children
enjoyed time at over forty ACA Keystone member camps.
Rewards
Monatesti said that when a parent is called to active duty, children
are often called to take on added responsibilities at home. At camp,
a child can just be a child. And for the spouse left behind, Operation
Summer Camp also provides a much-needed break from the logistics of daily
parenting.
For everyone involved in Operation Summer Camp, the rewards were great.
At Camp Neumann, which provided the most camperships in 2003 and again
in 2004, Steve Taylor said that helping the military children was a natural
outgrowth of the philosophy of the camp — which is operated by the
Roman Catholic Archdiocese and his own lifelong commitment to helping children
in need. At Camp Setebaid, which serves children with diabetes, a child
who attended through Operation Summer Camp returned the following summer
as a counselor. The father of a Camp Netimus camper presented the camp
with an American flag he had flown over Iraq. Many children and parents
wrote to Monatesti to tell him how much the program meant to them. And
in a special ceremony at the Pentagon, Nick Monatesti accepted the Outstanding
Family Readiness Group Award on behalf of the 111th Air Wing and its Operation
Summer Camp program. Of the ninety-three Wings in the United States, the
111th was the only one to receive this prestigious award.
"For every family who participated in the program," said Monatesti, "the
camps were a godsend." Tech. Sgt. Mowers added that because her husband,
from whom she is divorced, goes overseas almost every time the 111th is
called, her children live with constant worry — and she is worried
for them. "Thankfully, there's family support," Mowers
said. "It's very generous of the camps to do this. I'm
glad the children have had the opportunity to experience it."
How-To's for Setting Up Military Camperships
ACA, Keystone would like to help other ACA local offices and camps replicate
the Operation Summer Camp in their region. These tips should help jumpstart
the process and ease it along the way:
- Understand the chain of command. (The Guard reports to state
governors and is administered at the state level; the U.S. Army Reserve
reports to the president.)
- Make first contact with your local family readiness coordinator
(see "Military Contacts" sidebar on page 51), who can introduce
you, if necessary, to the state family program administrator.
- Always respect and use military titles, unless you are given permission
to use first names in conversation or communications.
- Recognize that, with the exception of administrative personnel,
guardsmen are volunteers. Thus, when not called to active duty, a
guardsman (e.g., the public affairs officer) may only be "on duty" on
select weekends. During the week, he or she will likely be at a "regular"
job and may be unavailable for Guard-related work. Ask if it's OK to
call or e-mail during the week, and be patient if you don't get an
immediate response. You may need to work with certain people on weekends.
- Never publicize the full (first and last) name of a military child
at your camp without the prior permission of the family readiness
coordinator. First names are always OK; last names may be OK, but only when approved.
- Provide plenty of information about the participating camps to your
family readiness coordinator. A spreadsheet summarizing camp availability
dates and camp specialties may make life easier for everyone.
- Try to be flexible. Unexpected deployments place unscheduled demands
on military families.
- Get camp information to the family readiness coordinator as early
in the year as possible.
- Relax parent visitation rules for the military kids at your camp.
- As appropriate, consider inviting military parents to lead or participate
in a special program at your camp or have the child's bunk send a
"care package" with a camp T-shirt that they all signed, or perhaps made-at-camp
stationery, to the parent of a military child. Most parents are very
willing to share stories around a campfire or send a photo to the camp from overseas.
As a national program, Operation Summer Camp has the potential to help
thousands of children and their families cope with the uncertainties
of an uncertain war. Camp does give kids a world of good. And through
philanthropic programs like Project Heal the Children, America's Camp,
Camp Haze, and Operation Summer Camp, camps also do good in the world.
| Military Contacts and Resources |
State Joint Force Headquarters Program
The National Guard Family Program Office in each state joint force
headquarters (JFHQ) is designed to assist family members of all
service members, regardless of military organization or status,
with information and/or referrals. For a list of contact information
for the Family Program Offices at the state level, please visit:
www.guardfamily.org. |
Local Family Program Office
Each Air National Guard Wing headquarters also maintains a Family Program Office
with a family readiness coordinator to provide assistance at the local level.
These offices also assist family members of all service members, regardless
of the military organization or status, with information and/or referrals.
Family readiness coordinator contact information for fifty-four states and
territories can be found at: www.guardfamily.org |
| These program office
links can also be found on the home page of the National Guard
Family Program Web site at www.guardfamily.org. |
| For more information about Operation Summer
Camp at ACA Keystone, please e-mail executive@ACAKeystone.org. |
Originally published in the 2005 March/April
issue of Camping Magazine. |